The framework behind the tools

Human AF

Six steps for everyday tasks, relationships, work, and finding a way back. Build speed helps you set up your systems. Rescue speed helps you use them when you’re stuck.

Notice, Normalize, Name, Narrow, Nudge, Nurture. Narrow plans the next few moves. Nudge makes the first one.

THE FRAMEWORK BEHIND THE TOOLS

One method. Two speeds.

Human AF connects the tools in Built For Chaos: Notice, Normalize, Name, Narrow, Nudge, and Nurture. Use the same six steps for everyday tasks, relationships, work, and finding a way back.

Narrow plans the next few moves. Nudge makes the first one.

Build speed

Work on your patterns and systems over days and weeks. The chapters show how, with a Run the Method example at the end of Chapters 1 through 9.

Rescue speed

When you’re stuck right now, use the Go-Bag card to name what’s happening, plan the next few moves, and make the first one.

The six steps

Keep the whole sequence in view.

  1. 01

    Notice

    Observe without judgment. What is actually happening right now?

  2. 02

    Normalize

    This is how your brain works. Drop the blame so you can work with what’s happening.

  3. 03

    Name

    Label it precisely. Make up the name if you have to.

  4. 04

    Narrow

    Plan the next few actions that matter. Just the next three moves.

  5. 05

    Nudge

    Make the first move. Only that one.

  6. 06

    Nurture

    Refuel the brain that got you through it. Build rest and support into the system.

Rescue speed in practice

A proposal that won’t start.

From Matt’s ninety-second walkthrough in the book, pages 12-13. Follow the same situation through all six steps.

Notice

The proposal is due Thursday. The document has been open since lunch, but Matt has only written and rewritten the title. He notices he’s sitting near the work rather than doing it.

1 of 6

Keep reading

When the planner becomes another verdict.

Drop the abandoned-planner shame

Keep it close

The method card, ready when you need it.

Eight cards across thirteen pages, including Quick Texts. No email, account, or purchase required.

Get the free Human AF Go-Bag

The complete operating manual

Human AF makes more sense with the full field guide around it.

Paperback, Hardcover, and Kindle on Amazon.